I think a lot of people are under the impression that you need to get married and start having kids sooner than later in order to be “living” or something along those lines.
I see a lot of people rushing into getting married. If 2 people want to spend the rest of their lives together, then why the need to sign that piece of paper 2 months after deciding that? I think it is acceptable to wait months, years even to finally get married.
I am not in any way saying a marriage can’t last if it is sooner rather than later. Im just wondering what the rush really is?
Obviously for so many of us, this is constantly being brought up, or we are experiencing it, losing it, hating it, trying to find it, trying to get over it, ect. For people that have been in love, you know how consuming it is, how great it can feel, how hard it can be. There is so much that goes into it. But here’s the thing I cannot understand; why do so many people zero in on love being their only issue?
We all know those people who are obsessed with finding love. They are constantly looking, finding, and losing love. I am a fairly positive person, I like to think of myself as a very level headed person, and I don’t know how so many people can think that is their biggest concern? What about education, family, their children, living quarters, job, religion, politics, traveling, I don’t how about anything else in this world. Just a thought.