I have found it crazy, but true we focus more on someones words and what they actually mean, if we know nothing about them.
My thoughts on packing when traveling or moving isHAVE SOMEONE ELSE DO IT! Honestly though. Its too much damn work. It takes forever, we dont do it until the last minute, and then we grow grey hair & rip the not grey ones out. So if you are going somewhere just pay someone else to pack it. In the long run you will thank me. :)